This morning I prayed to God, asking for clearer understanding- "What do I do with these patterns?" It wasn't so much a deep prayer, more like a question in passing and I'd almost forgotten I'd even asked.
I went about my day without thinking twice about it.
Last night I had an interesting dream. The dynamics involved a young leader facing a difficult choice- he carried an emotional burden weighing tradition to something other than tradition. I am there in the dream to remind him of his personal agency, and he makes a decision to break away from doing things according to tradition.
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Early afternoon one of our chefs, a female coworker, pulled me aside to ask for advice. She is dating someone from a completely different culture, and her way of understanding relationships is being seriously challenged. She told me, "according to my culture and my tradition, we do things this way or that way"
That's when it hit me. And like a lightning bolt, something came into me. I told her I felt compelled to share because I'm being asked to speak on pattern. I reminded her of her personal freedom. Everything came out so clear and matter of fact, and I don't remember everything being said, because it was for her as a personal message... But she was so impressed she gave me a high five and really felt transformed.
.... So I notice these patterns, and maybe, I am being asked to speak on them when the opportunities present themselves- in a greater service towards Love.
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Shortly after, still feeling imbued with presence- a customer came into the store. And he asked how I was doing- We were smiling, joking, laughing. When he asked how I was- I told him just taking things one breath at a time. And that's when something else hit me... I told him, you know, it really is that simple. But we put so much mental energy in each breath- we can make it so complicated!
He was in agreement, as was my coworker who was standing by us at the time. That's when SHE pointed out the song on the radio.... It was a song about being lost in ones mind. The funny thing is, all three of us heard: "Don't want to be lost in our minds"

But the lyric is actually "Lost in my mind"
https://youtu.be/xjoA4nYBD5U?si=qx2KgYa5CE5TqO6G
I think the fact that we all heard "our minds" is peculiar. But we all laughed at the incredible synchronicity- and I thanked the customer and my coworker for being a part of the lesson from a Living Universe.
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It seems as well that my prayers are being answered, even though I forgot the one from this morning. So, maybe it’s true that we forget our own prayers but they still get answered. This experience has re-shaped or, “adjusted" my mind and my attentiveness towards the present.