Wow, that is a perfectly amazing prompt. I pray your friend and his new wife have a wonderful life together.
I want you to know I enjoy reading your inspired words. What I am going to say is in general for all reading and in no way takes away from anything you have posted. But with the quote below I feel I need to clarify something.
you wrote:
Yes, the goal is most important. I couldn't agree more.I feel the goal is most important, the union with God and/or the realization of the Divine Romance~ A living partnership.
But there is something I want to make sure is clear for people who read what we write.
So, Eric, I have known you for a very long time... I value your friendship over those years and we have discussed as human friends parts of our lives to our happiness and advantage. We have also discussed spiritual things and that which is most important...our eternal goals.
Well, for those reading, this is also the Midwayers. They are friends in a similar vein to me. It is true they are more advanced than we are on the ascending human/celestial being scale...They have existed on this planet for thousands of years and have observed a lot. They are a wealth of information when they are allowed to provide it and they absolutely never interfere in our budding relationship with the God within and without. So for me and any others who call midwayers their friend, they are a blessing as Eric and many other humans are a blessing to me. And in no way do they hinder my looking to the Creator of all any more than my human friendships would hinder it.
I enjoy celestial relationships as much as I do my human relationships. It doesn't deter my ambition to join with my creator by sharing bits of my mortal life with Bzutu, Mathew, Sharon, or Dr Mendoza. So my point is, that we can have both friendships with celestials and the most important and long-term goal of union with God.
But certainly with all that said, it is more than okay not to want to enjoy their friendship or that of any other celestial and focus on the God-child relationship.
The Midwayers do not ever push a relationship if we do not want it or wish for it. So no worries.
xxSandy