1111 & Romantic Love Interest
Posted: Fri Jan 17, 2025 5:56 am
I just wanted to share something, maybe others can elaborate with their own experiences. Sometimes, when interacting with a love interest, receiving an 1111 prompt from that person doesn't mean what you think or hope it means.
My buddy recently got married, I was a groomsman. I had a lot of fun. I even met a beautiful girl from Argentina. I ended up getting her contact information and we chatted some on the phone that night. She sent me a picture of herself at 1111PM and one again at 1111AM.
The young romantic in me would have thought this was a sign that I may have found my next partner. That it *must mean something more. But I quickly realized that something more was about becoming aware of what was happening inside of me.
This girl brought to surface some feelings from my very first love. I was surprised how raw those emotions still felt after all these years. I was surprised there was still so much unaddressed tucked away inside of me.
The time with this girl was brief and 1111 was not there to say- "you found your new love" but was there to say "are you paying attention?"
I recognized that I *wanted to explore the seeming nonsensical and even somewhat regrettably silly behavior. Why? Because I was growing tired of routine. But more importantly... 1111 was happening to remind me that I still wanted to experience a romantic love with a woman. That I was enjoying the attention, even if I was engaged in ways that mean I still need to grow up.
It was a pretty nice feeling. But like that, this girl disappeared. Well I had a dream just last night, and I believe I am able to correctly interpret its meaning as a reflection of my interaction with this girl. That's rare. And this clarity comes with a sense of peace, I am not upset- no woe is me. It was nice to let loose and remember I still have these raw feelings, and still have so much more to grow on if I am to have a healthy romance.
We may never know the complete meaning of 1111 when shared between love interest. In this moment, it wasn't there to tell me I found my new partner. Again/More important, it was there to help me become aware of my own stuff. It may seem trivial, but the younger me might have projected my own desires onto the prompt. I may again at some point depending on how strong the desire is. All that's OK, but I felt inclined to share this insight either way. I hope it helps others.
My buddy recently got married, I was a groomsman. I had a lot of fun. I even met a beautiful girl from Argentina. I ended up getting her contact information and we chatted some on the phone that night. She sent me a picture of herself at 1111PM and one again at 1111AM.
The young romantic in me would have thought this was a sign that I may have found my next partner. That it *must mean something more. But I quickly realized that something more was about becoming aware of what was happening inside of me.
This girl brought to surface some feelings from my very first love. I was surprised how raw those emotions still felt after all these years. I was surprised there was still so much unaddressed tucked away inside of me.
The time with this girl was brief and 1111 was not there to say- "you found your new love" but was there to say "are you paying attention?"
I recognized that I *wanted to explore the seeming nonsensical and even somewhat regrettably silly behavior. Why? Because I was growing tired of routine. But more importantly... 1111 was happening to remind me that I still wanted to experience a romantic love with a woman. That I was enjoying the attention, even if I was engaged in ways that mean I still need to grow up.
It was a pretty nice feeling. But like that, this girl disappeared. Well I had a dream just last night, and I believe I am able to correctly interpret its meaning as a reflection of my interaction with this girl. That's rare. And this clarity comes with a sense of peace, I am not upset- no woe is me. It was nice to let loose and remember I still have these raw feelings, and still have so much more to grow on if I am to have a healthy romance.
We may never know the complete meaning of 1111 when shared between love interest. In this moment, it wasn't there to tell me I found my new partner. Again/More important, it was there to help me become aware of my own stuff. It may seem trivial, but the younger me might have projected my own desires onto the prompt. I may again at some point depending on how strong the desire is. All that's OK, but I felt inclined to share this insight either way. I hope it helps others.