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Understanding Is Love (and the World Needs More Love) — by Ben Fizell

Posted: Wed Sep 25, 2019 4:50 pm
by Welles
I recently attended a weekend workshop, and there was a man in the group who always had a strange look on his face whenever we had to look for a partner to work with. I noticed that some people avoided him, like they didn’t want to work with him. Perhaps it was the vibe he gave off because of the way he looked at people.

At some point later in the weekend I sat with him. It was hard to put my finger on it, but there was something about him that did feel a little strange, and I could see that other people were put off by him.

After the weekend had finished, we happened to be sitting next to each other and started talking, which somehow led to him telling me that he is almost completely blind. With his contact lenses in he can see okay, but the low light of the room made it very hard for him to make out faces.

In that moment I understood. That was why he gave off a weird vibe—because he was having trouble seeing. The “look” he gave was simply a result of him trying to see and ultimately connect with someone.

The internal label I’d given him of “strange” dissolved in an instant, and in that same moment I felt an opening in my heart. It was an unconditional level of understanding that brought with it a sense of peace and connection.
Understanding Is Love (and the World Needs More Love) — by Ben Fizell

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Re: Understanding Is Love (and the World Needs More Love) — by Ben Fizell

Posted: Thu Sep 26, 2019 1:14 am
by Sandy
Thank you, thank you, thank you Rod. :D

Those wise words resonate so strongly with me today as if they were written for me.

Loved this last bit...taking it with me into the day.
“Understanding is an avenue into love. It’s also an expression of love in action. When we enter into understanding we are entering into love… and “When the power of love overcomes the love of power, the world will know peace.” ~Jimi Hendrix
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Sandy