A Most Difficult Lesson: People Are Just Doing Their Best — by Joshua Kauffman 

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A Most Difficult Lesson: People Are Just Doing Their Best — by Joshua Kauffman 

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Joshua shares a very important lesson in this article.

"This lesson is a very difficult pill to swallow. Most everyone knows lying and stealing are wrong, and yet so many people do them anyway. Violence and aggression are among society’s universally believed wrong, and yet our world has way too much of them. In the grip of feeling oppressed or victimized, it’s almost impossible to hold this thought in our head—we’re too logical for that.

But consider for a moment: That lady in the store knew that hurling invective at the cashier who couldn’t figure out the correct coupon code is impatient, unkind, and probably unreasonable. The guy on the road who cuts people off knows he doesn’t like it when people do that to him, and he knows his actions make a road accident more likely. They do it anyway. How can we even think they’re doing their best?

One way is to think about it very cleanly: What would you say about someone who knows something to be wrong and yet cannot summon the self-control, patience, compassion, or whatever it may be to stop themselves from doing it?

In that moment, the person is not conscious enough to refrain from the hurtful action. The person is not connected enough to identify with those his or her actions are harming. Something is holding that person back from showing up fully and achieving his or her full human potential for goodness."


A Most Difficult Lesson: People Are Just Doing Their Best — by Joshua Kauffman

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Re: A Most Difficult Lesson: People Are Just Doing Their Best — by Joshua Kauffman 

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Thank you Welles.... I am quiet as I reflect on this powerful essay. Wow, I pray I remember this "as best I can." :)

With love,
Sandy
“We measure and evaluate your Spiritual Progress on the Wall of Eternity." – Guardian of Destiny, Alverana.
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