Dealing with Upsets and Conflicts

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Dealing with Upsets and Conflicts

Post by Violet Flowers » Sun May 03, 2015 4:19 am

Dealing with Upsets and Conflicts

“Beautiful people of planet earth, today we wish to speak with you about the topic of dealing with those around you that could cause you upsets or possible conflicts.

As you know the world is filled with many people and many ways of thinking, acting and behaving. You get born with a pattern of thinking from your biological parents and then your country and people around you make many of these ideas and ideals more refined. Sometimes it seems the ideas become so refined that there is no place for opposite or differing ideas. Any margins of difference in some humans are barely tolerated.

We get annoyed, upset, create separation from these people with their different actions, behaviors and thinking. We grumble and hold back any feelings of consideration for them- Think then for a moment in times of adversity when you may need these people that you feel are so different from you. There may come a time when you could need them to help you start your car or lend you a hand. In those moments you would collapse the worlds of separation and ask for help and in your sharing you could see one anothers hearts and the things that you share in common. You could see your humanity shining through.

We hope that it will not take disasters and catastrophe for you all to begin lowering these walls that separate you all.

Ways to help you maintain cordial connection even in spite of possible conflict are to try and look and see their humanity and what you see you have in common with them. Look and see how you all actually strive for the same things; - To be happy and to be loved. Each of you seeking these things in different ways.. but nevertheless seeking the same things.

When experiencing conflict with another could you stop and see that you all wish for the same outcomes in life although perhaps through different attitudes and avenues. If you can see that you all hold this streak of similarity – do you see that you can find ways to connect? Even to connect at the level of wishing them well in their happiness, even if it differs radically from your own. Could you just wish them good luck and let them go on their way?

We see that seeking this humanitarian view and seeking the similarities can help a lot- It can break down some of the walls of difference that can rip apart a society, a nation or a world.

Truly dear people – aren’t you all seeking to be happy? Seeking to be loved? Seeking to enjoy and expand your lives in the direction you would like them to go? These are the basic wants of all humans although you approach them through radically different avenues. Try your best if you can when upset with another to ask? How are they in their own way seeking love? How are they seeking happiness?

I acknowledge that we can climb to the top of the metaphorical mountain of life many ways therefore I can respect that their journey may look very different from mine but have the same underlying structure and goals. They have the same reaching for joys and love that you do. This is fine and all roads are to be respected as all build their roads starting with different materials and with different knowledge on how to build these roads. Respect their building materials and knowledge as much as their end goals and try your very best to see your sameness, your same goals and aspirations - your same hearts and human form.

You all find much difference within one another although have you thought deeply about what is the same, what you share and what is similar? We promise you there is much more similar than you know. Just be aware- pay attention and try not to judge their direction and attention. Stay focused on your road up the mountain. Stay focused with your knowledge and materials and if someone comes your way that wishes to tread on your path in your way then by all means share your tools and endeavors but please allow all to find their own track – their own versions of their life.

You and we are all learning through experience and we know that watching another’s experience far different from your own could cause you to cringe- although try your best to understand, respect and move forward your own way. Keep your light and heart moving upwards. Don’t waste time convincing others that your track is the only way when each way is valid.

Please take time today to look and see if in any areas you feel mental or up close physical conflict. What could you view again? What could you seek to understand and accept about them. You are all doing the best you can with what you know.

Thank you for seeking to move forward in this area.

We love you very much- The Circle of Seven”

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Re: Dealing with Upsets and Conflicts

Post by Sandy » Mon May 04, 2015 4:07 am

Hello and Thank you Violet!
I could have used this lesson on many numerous occasions! ;) :)

And once again you have provided some concrete ways for us to work through conflicted feelings...
such as...
Ways to help you maintain cordial connection even in spite of possible conflict are to try and look and see their humanity and what you see you have in common with them. Look and see how you all actually strive for the same things; - To be happy and to be loved. Each of you seeking these things in different ways.. but nevertheless seeking the same things.
and...
Truly dear people – aren’t you all seeking to be happy? Seeking to be loved? Seeking to enjoy and expand your lives in the direction you would like them to go? These are the basic wants of all humans although you approach them through radically different avenues. Try your best if you can when upset with another to ask? How are they in their own way seeking love? How are they seeking happiness?
Thank you for this as well...
You are all doing the best you can with what you know.
... which is, for me, a very good reminder at those times when I struggle to understand another with differing attitudes, ways of being, beliefs etc...

Have a great week and much love to you and the Circle of Seven.!
hugs,
Sandy
Humankind has not woven the web of life. We are but one thread within it. Whatever we do to the web, we do to ourselves. All things are bound together. All things connect.

~ Chief Seattle ~

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Thank you Sandy Re: Dealing with Upsets and Conflicts

Post by Violet Flowers » Mon May 04, 2015 9:04 am

Hello Sandy

Once again I thank you for always taking the time to read and find the jewels for yourself in what is being sent down. It is so easy for all of us to focus on the upset isn't it- to focus on what is wrong and not what we all have in common. The Circle of Seven are clever aren't they. I'm So glad I get to share with grateful people such as yourself.

Thank you for your reflections and your gratitude. Have a beautiful day- week -evening morning.. ha ha :sunflower:

Big hugs
Michelle

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