prayer for crossed over dad

[Dragonfly]

Dear Forum,

it has been a long year, and many things going on this time around. Keep returning back to my dad who passed away back in 2oo2, and would like to ask for prayers that i can find peace with him. And unblock myself mentally from the relatinship we had, and which sifts into my current adult Life. Any prayers would be welcome, and that he has found his light and peace in the afterlife. Blessed Be & with Love, with Light.

N.B. to cut a long stroy short a gap was left in my heart and in family, after the divorce of my parents. And the "nomade" life of my dad. Just seeking peace.

Blessed Be in Everything, Kwame

[nasra1996]

Dear Kwame,

praying that you find peace......


Your father is doing fine....


Love Sarah

[Sandy]

Dear Kwame,
When I read your post I was reminded of my mother and the blocks that seemed between us in our relationship over the years. Years ago I felt the weight of these things and I complained loudly to God that I didn't even know what theses things were exactly that was preventing an open flow of peace between my mom and I. So I wrote down my questions and took them with me into meditation one day and I waited. I was so shocked at what came up and in a million years would have never dreamed it was the root source. I almost hate to say it, because it is so selfish on my part but when I was about 12 years old my beautiful mother had a horrible nervous break down and was hospitalized for a time. When she came home she was no longer the person I knew. As a child in dealing with this, I blocked the hurt and pain from my memories and it wasn't until this meditation time that I realized that I blamed her in some childish way for being sick and for not being the woman she had been as well as for all the hurt and pain I had bottled up all those long years ago. In those hours I allowed myself to feel what it was like and to understand that it wasn't her fault (something I knew in my head all along but the child in me still resented it) I reached out to her over the miles TA to TA and hugged her spirit and told her how much I loved her and always loved her no matter what she said or how she acted and what she thought. Please know that my mother is still living but I see no reason why your Higher Self couldn't contact your Fathers Higher Self too when you feel ready and guided. Distance whether it is geogrgraphy or spirtitual realms is no problem to God after all. I want you to know that through this whole process I was not alone. I felt my angels beside me gently supporting me as the weight of the happenings hit me once again. It wasn't easy but with the help of many loving celestials my understanding was completed and my mother and I enjoy a close relationship now.
I pray that you find peace and understanding of your own past relationship with your father and that any issues still troubling you are gently brought into full light where love, acceptance and forgiveness are possible.
With love,
Sandy

[Ang]

Hi Dragonfly, I'm very sorry for your loss and will say a prayer for you.

I think your Father is now inviting you to complete with him and restore your relationship with him. Years ago I was at a workshop and one of the sessions was (in a meditation), invite your parents (whether they they were in this world or the next) into your lounge and just be with them for a time. Look into their faces and look at their hands. When they were ready to leave you hug them and see them out. It was an incredibly powerful exercise and put right all the wrongs and strains that took place throughout my life with them. I would love you to experience this. After I did this, I had nothing but enormous love for both of them to this day.

I hope you get your reconciliation and I'm sure you will, love Ang x

[luvinlife]

Kwame, yes, spirit lives on. I'm praying for you.

(((((((Sandy)))))) Thanks for sharing.

Love, Clare

[Dragonfly]

Dears,

thanks for the wise words. During the last months or so, i have been able to "see him" and things have changed. i have sent out love & light, and funnily enough even seen him being kissed by a Unicorn. For much of his life, my dad was a nomade in the way he could not return to his native country/malawi, and i believe this left a mark on him and caused him great sorrow and restlessness. Glad to hear he is at peace now!

in other words, i sense the inner realms being healed in the hearts of not just a parent, but all who once were children. Since my granddad passed away (march ´1o) then this "awakening" has emerged more and more. More and more familiys are seeking to reconcile with themselves, and not just pass on generational energys that keep us blocked and locked in dysfunctional roles, behaviour and expressions. Sometime last year or maybe rather two years ago in 08, i recall a visit at my granddads and my uncle being there too, they both happend to be in the small kitchen.. anyways i overheard their conversation, as my granddad was asked what he was looking at, and he answered in a warm voice telling how he was observing a child playing outside! Somehow this stuck with me, cause of the generational gap.. and the joy in his voice. By then he was already passed the 85 mark, yet still a child to capture his full attention. :^)

Blessed Be. Thanks again.

Namasté, Kwame <3

[Ang]

I'm very very happy for you Dragonfly! Ang

[blue nova]

(((( Dragonfly ))))

[Michelle Petkus]

Kwame, It sounds like you have made some progress in finding peace. I am happy for you.

Love,
Michelle